Jul
11
anyone breached their bi-ness with an unknowing spouse?
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i’m a biM in a hetero-ltr with a girl i love dearly. the
unfortunate reality is that we share very few similarities
in the sex department but have her version of a healthy sex
life. i know i am the gutless (theoretically lol) one who
should have been establishing dialog along the way but
i honestly feel like i’ve tried. she knows how i feel
about what physically stimulates me and that i have bisexual
attractions. she, without saying, woud find ‘cheating’
simply cheating and is not inteerrested in bringing anyone
else as a third into our lives. i decided long ago to respect
that and bring up that discussion from time to time but,
i had my days to play the field with women and can accept the
terms of my relationship from that angle BUT, i have yet
to experience my m2m desires to any degree and feel like
it is quite a different choice to have to make.
first, anyone agree/disagree -with some feedback?
second, anyone brought their mate into the picture with
or w/o success? we have a ton of trust and love between us
so i feel like the right approach could be a significant
asset. my ideal scenario would be that she would decide
who with me so she could feel she has some authority/ownership
of the decision and can secure her safety health wise as
well.