Dec
6
Freeing the Female Orgasm
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Most men enjoy having their genitals touched at any time,
whether they’re sexually aroused or not. This isn’t
usually the case with women. Think of the vagina as a “potential”
opening, a magical door that will happily open wide to receive
you, but only after you’ve called ahead to ensure your
welcome. Be certain she’s eager for your genital explorations
by focusing loving attention on other parts of her body
first — lots of kissing, neck nuzzling, tender strokes
on back, shoulders and arms, then adoring caresses of her
breasts. Only after you sense she’s ready, through
signs like rapid breathing, flushed skin, hardened nipples,
or enticing moans should you move to her vagina. Once your
hand or mouth is at her sweet honey pot begin to explore it
from the outside inward — outer lips, clitoris, inner
lips, vaginal canal.
Generally women reach orgasm most easily through clitoral
stimulation. The clitoris is extremely sensitive to touch
of all kinds. Often the head of the clitoris, the pointed
tip, is too sensitive for much direct pressure, so focus
your attention on the sides. Touch around the clitoris
instead of right on it, at least until her level of excitement
increases. The skin tissue of your fingers is not nearly
as sensitive as the tissue around her clitoris. But the
tissue of your mouth and tongue is an almost perfect match
in sensitivity. Unless you are more highly skilled in using
your fingers, it is a much safer way to start by using your
mouth for oral stimulation of the clitoris. Experiment
with different pressures, strokes, and speeds. Ask her
which ones she likes best. A good way to do this is to try two
different touches, then ask her if she likes “a”
or “b” better.