First, the preparations. Rummage through your hair scrunchies
and find the one that is rather soft and a bit long or with
a lot of give, or buy a new one just for this. Leather ones
are probably out as are any ones with clips or any metal edges.

Next, find a stocking or one half pair of pantyhose or a scarf
to use as a blindfold. It doesn’t need to be sexy looking;
it’s only to make the pleasure more intense and also
to keep him from trying to figure out what the heck you’re
doing down there.

Get ready for bed. Put on the blindfold for him and lead him
to the bed. Help him get in and get comfy. He’ll probably
keep asking what you’re doing; just keep reassuring
him that you have a pleasant surprise for him.

Next, take a soft washcloth and, using warm water placed
in a small container. Wet the towel and wring out completely.
Gently pick up his penis and stroke toward his body and underneath
his testicles. If he protests that he just had a shower,
tell him you’re just wiping away any loose hairs because
you want nothing in the way.

Take the scrunchie and ever-so-gently wrap it, starting
with placing it VERY loosely around the testicles and then
back up to the top of the shaft, looping the scrunchie until
it is fastened securely around his testicles and his, by
now, hardening penis.

Taking his penis into your mouth, kiss, lick and suck very,
very gently, paying attention to his testicles also. The
more blood that gets engorged and is somewhat bound by your
hair accessory.

Keep alternating the movements, stopping to spend extra
time on the places that you know are super-sensitive for
him. Or ask–not while you’re doing this, but during
a sex talk at a later date.

Finally, don’t forget to push up on the perineum; the
feeling is the equivalent of our G-spot. To find it, put
your hand behind his shaft and testicles. There will be
an area that runs from there back to his anus.

The spot you are looking for is midway between the two areas
described. Don’t be worried you’ll not find it
or you won’t do it right. Practice makes perfect—and,
if he can still talk, he might tell you—or show you.

So you’ve gotten to the middle part. Now press up and
back firmly. No response? Try varying the area a bit. It’s
really not that big an area so it’s pretty much a ‘you
can’t miss it thing.’ Take note of where he groans
with pleasure—and with pain and, of course, avoid the
latter….unless…..

Massaging the perineum is intense even during regular
sex; his orgasms will be more intense just as ours are when
the clitoris is stroked in just the right way.

Tell yourself beforehand, that he may not be able to prevent
ejaculation this way, so don’t be disappointed if
there is no penetration that time, depending on his rebound
time.

If you have to have penetration, and he may agree, stop when
you know you need to stop. You probably know when this is
better than he does. If this is the third date, you probably
won’t know—and shame on you for ‘doing it’
too soon. Yes, the three date rule has been moved ahead to
allow more time to get to know each other.

Afterwards, untie the blindfold and let him compliment
you, your taste, your sexiness, your everything. Cuddle
and fall asleep in each other’s arms.

And keep the blindfold and scrunchie handy!

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