Now, keeping that in mind, the first step to giving good
head is to relax… and that goes for the giver and the receiver.
The easiest position for this is to get in between his legs,
lay just over his cock, and brace yourself on your left forearm.

Next, gather some saliva in your mouth (if this is a problem,
for about $1 at any sex shop, you can find little one-time
flavored lube packets) and S L O W L Y take the head–just
the head–in your mouth. Gently lick the corona (the ridge
around the head), not spending too much time in any one spot.
Lick the frenulum (the V-shaped ridge under the head),
and around the urethra (piss-hole). Take him out of your
mouth (slowly, no teeth!), lube up your mouth, and go down
farther (about half way.) If you can deep-throat, don’t
do it yet. You don’t want to show him all your tricks
in the first couple of minutes. As you come back up, lick
the underside of his shaft in a figure-8 pattern, making
sure to apply some suction. Vary these acts until he becomes
rock-hard.

After he’s fully hard, feel free to be a little harder
and faster with him. Note: the harder he gets doesn’t
necessarily mean the rougher you have to get with him. Emphasize
variety by intensity, but remember not to be too light.
Do not bend his cock. Keep your tongue going around the corona,
and on the shaft, your left side, a quarter inch below the
head. If you want to deep throat him, now is the time. However,
deep-throating doesn’t constitute a good blow job.
Look for signs that he’s enjoying himself–what he
says isn’t always reliable. Listen to his breathing,
watch the involuntary bucking of his hips, the twitching
of his cock, and the pulling back of his cock.

When he’s ready to cum, his cock and balls will draw
up together. If you feel this and want to continue the sensation,
firmly grab his balls and gently tug them down. Please remember
that swallowing in itself isn’t as important as letting
him cum in your mouth. If you remove your mouth and finish
him off with your hands, you’re talking about taking
away the source of pleasure and replacing it with something
that he can do himself. If he wants a handjob, he doesn’t
need you. What you do with it is irrelevant.

Remember: make sure that you’re both having fun.

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