Jan
31
How To Go Down On A Woman
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I frequently hear and read from women that many men do not
know how to perform oral sex well. Given that even women
who cannot experience an orgasm via penetration can almost
always climax via oral stimulation, guys, learn how to
go down on girls and they will regard you as a great lover!
At the risk of sounding egotistical, I’m an expert at cunilingus.
How did I gain this expertise? First, my attitude: I love
pussy–the way it looks, smells, feels, tastes, and even
sounds. Having a positive regard for pussy with all your
senses is the first step. Second, my motivation: I like
to sexually please women just as much as I like to be pleased,
so I really WANT to bring them off and am not selfish about
my own satisfaction. Remember that sex is circular: the
more you please her, the more likely you’ll be pleased by
her. Third, my technique: I learned how to go down on girls
by studying sex manuals, instructional videos (not porno),
but primarily by listening and responding to many girls’
feedback as to their likes and dislikes, including those
I had sex with and any girl who cared to discuss the subject.
Now the following may sound weird to some guys, but bear
with me here: Eat pussy like you enjoy your dick being sucked.
This concept will serve as a useful, though very general
guide in pleasing women orally. Here’s why: Morphologically,
the clitoris corresponds to the last 1/3 of the penis, the
vagina corresponds to the lower shaft of the penis, and
the labia correspond to the scrotum. Begin very slow and
light and gradually work up speed, pressure, and suction.
Start out by gently brushing her pussy lips and clitoral
hood with your fingertips. Do this very, very lightly,
first through her panties. Don’t remove her panties until
you can see at least a little pussy juice printing through
them. Take off her panties slowly. Get yourselves in a position
in which you are both comfortable; either she is lying face
up or on her knees facing down, but make sure you can easily
get to her entire vulva. Then kiss her inner thighs, tummy,
buttocks, and mons, getting ever closer to her pussy, but
don’t rush! Lightly kiss her labia and clitoral hood and
exhale your warm breath onto them. Using your thumbs placed
on each side of her labia majora, gently press up and out
to open her lips and expose her clit and labia minora. Then
lightly drag your tongue from the bottom of her vagina upwards
across her clit. Flick the tip of your tongue very lightly
up and down on her clit, very gradually increasing the speed
and pressure of the flicking. Do this for a few minutes,
then go back to licking upwards from the bottom of the vagina
up to the clit and do this for a few minutes. Then gently suck
her labia, pulling first one side and the other through
your own facial lips, but do not leave her clit unattended
for long, stroking it methodically with your tongue, fingers
or thumb. Keep in mind the dick-sucking analogy: you like
your balls licked and sucked but you like your dick sucked
and licked before too much time elapses. She sould be sopping
wet by this point, but carefully note her reaction to all
this and adjust your speed, pace and pressure accordingly.
Some girls like a finger or two or three inside their pussy
while you do this while other girls do not. If she likes the
simultaneously finger-in way, massage the G-spot, which
is a slightly rougher spot about an inch or two inside the
vagina on the clit side. As she becomes increasingly excited,
suck on her clit, gently at first as you simultaneously
make circles around it, flick up and down and back and forth
with your tongue. You like your dick sucked this way, don’t
you? It takes practice, but you’ll learn to pick up the signals
that she is about to come, so slow your pace and decrease
your suction as she approaches orgasm but before she climaxes
to “take her back down” before gradually increasing your
pace and pressure to rev her up again. Taking her through
several up-and-down cycles like this will make her orgasm
much more intense when you decide to finally maintain the
action that will bring her to orgasm–again, just like
a great blow job. Many women will experience multiple orgasms,
and only a bone-head will not know when she is coming. Keep
in mind that women are different in terms of exactly what
they like, so watch her response to what you are doing and
make the appropriate adjustments. For example, while
you’re going down, squeeze her boobs, gently pinch her
nipples, caress or spank her butt, lick her anus, insert
a finger in it, or let her suck on your finger (or dick, if
you’re in a “69″). Ask her what she likes and do just that.
However, it’s best to get down the oral sex basics before
adding these variations according to your mutual likes
and dislikes. I guarantee you will be a great pussy-eater
if you follow these general methods.