Apr
29

Masturbation For Two

Filed Under Incest 

Masturbation has long been a solo activity for most men
and women. This seems to be a very private activity and one
that people are not always willing to share with their partners.
I know that a lot of partners are threatened by their partners
need or desire to masturbate. They usually feel like there
is something that they are not providing for their partner
or that they are inadequate sexually or dont sexually
satisfy their partner. So rather than have their partners
be disappointed or upset they sneak into the bathroom and
masturbate privately and hope not to get caught.

Sharing a masturbation experience can be one of the most
intimate acts you can experience with your partner. I find
that for me it gives me an opportunity to observe my partner
and watch his reactions as he masturbates. I dont feel
threatened by his masturbation. Quite often it occurs
when I am not really in the mood to do anything about his erection.
I enjoy watching him take care of himself actually I find
it very fascinating to tell the truth.

On the other side of the coin is a completely different feeling
when I masturbate myself and he watches. Its that feeling
of being caught with ones hand in the cookie jar that adds
a little extra spice to the situation. The fact that someone
is watching tends to heighten the sensation for myself.
I can easily get lost and imagine that several people are
watching me get off.

Mutual masturbation can be done as foreplay to intercourse
or it can be done all on its own right to orgasm. Either way
it can be a lot of fun and create a very intimate session for
you and your partner. If you have sex toys that you enjoy
playing with they can come in very handy when you are pleasuring
each other in this fashion. At times my partner will be masturbating
and I will join in by rubbing his balls for him or even sucking
them into my mouth. This also works equally well the other
way around. I will massage my clitoris while he runs his
fingers across the inside of my thighs, dipping into my
vagina and rubbing the area around my clitoris. Ive found
it very erotic to have my fingers touching his as they roam
across my private parts.

Personally I have found that mutual masturbation is a great
activity for those lazy days, when you really dont want
to crawl out of bed at all. This is definitely a great way
to wake up! Lying beside each other its fairly easy to reach
over and run your fingers through his pubic hair or skim
your fingers lightly over his balls and cock. As you play
you will notice that his cock will arise to the occasion.
At this point if he hasnt already started to work his hands
over towards your pussy theres nothing wrong with grabbing
his hand and directing it to your pussy yourself. Hell
get the idea.

Lubrication is always a good idea. If there isnt enough
lubrication then sensitive skin can become chafed and
extremely uncomfortable. Now there are many different
types of lubrication that you can use. Some of the choices
you will make in choosing lubrication might depend on whether
or not youre going to indulge in oral sex afterwards. If
this is the case then you want to use something that will
at least taste good and not leave a bad taste in your mouth.
There are lots of love lotions available from the sex shops
that will fill the bill here. If taste isnt an issue then
go with a water-soluble based lubrication. If things start
to dry out you just have to add a little bit of moisture to
it and youre all set to go again. If you dont have any of
the lubrication above available then just use what comes
naturally which is your saliva and juices that your body
produces when you are sexually aroused.

Positioning

Mutual masturbation can be done in a number of different
positions. Its simply a matter of finding what is the most
comfortable for you and your partner.

The most common position is lying side by side on your backs
in the bed. Your arm will cross over your partners arm or
vice versa and reach to their most sensitive spots. I find
that sometimes I have to scoot down the bed a little ways
to make the reach a little easier. Im shorter than he is
by a bit. This position also works quite well when you are
sitting on the couch watching television or even perhaps
watching a naughty movie.

Another position that can be used for mutual masturbation
is for you both to be sitting facing one another with genitals
close together. I think its easiest if this is done in a
semi-recline position so that you are able to reach your
partners genitals easily.

Strokes & Techniques
I was going to list a bunch of strokes and techniques that
you could each use on your partners. Ive since changed
my mind. What Id like to do with this section is have my readers
send me in their favourites or techniques that work really
well for them and I will add them to the bottom of this page.
Im looking forward to seeing what kind of inventive methods
youve all come up with

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