One guy’s opinion on photos in profiles.
Filed Under Incest
As a member of the sex that is visually stimulated, I feel
obliged to weigh in on the genital photo debate. The elements
of this debate are far ranging and impossible to nail down
in such a short space. My focus is on effect. Does the photo
arouse my senses or is it boring?
Right up front, a dose of honesty will be helpful. In order
to get the best photos, at least two people have to be involved;
three is optimal. I know this because the most effective
shots for me when looking are all in third person. Two are
getting with it and one is recording the occasion for posterity.
However, this is not easily achieved. I know.
Finding someone willing to participate in a photo shoot
is difficult, or it has been for me anyway. And as a beginner,
it is even more difficult to get the right photos up solo.
So, to break this down, I will divide the shots into three
categories: first person (guy photographs his own penis,
or woman her vagina), second person (someone photographs
guys penis or womans vagina) and third
person (two people are having a ball, ahem, and another
is photographing it).
First person works effectively when it is combined with
a total package. OK, I photographed my penis, now what?
How about a combination of photos some fully clothed
that best capture my physical presence. This is
effective. As for shots of orgasm, they are simply overdone,
as are the clich mirror shots. If one is going for artistic
flair, one should surf a while and see what has not been done.
This goes for men and women.
Second person shots can be fun to look at, as long as the party
has put some thought into the shot. Post orgasm vagina shots
come, ahem, to mind. Again, when part of a complete package,
they can be absolutely boing time. On the other hand, if
that is all there is to the show, ok, but I can look at a mess
anywhere. Guys tend to get higher marks in second person.
I dont know if there is an artistic edge, simply
because guys are not trying to be artistic (whereas some
second person female packages are obviously shot by an
admirer without regard to what makes that female body special).
Third person action shots are usually boingomatics. They
seem to always hit the sweet spot. For those of you fortunate
enough to have the stars aligned to give you the opportunity,
shoot the heck out of it. Rarely does a third person sex scene
not bring my soldier to attention the obvious exception
is when I dont find the people attractive, and Im
sure all of them are losing sleep over my opinion, uh huh.
Right now, all of the shots in my profile are first person.
Give me a break; I just got started here. When I get the opportunity,
the second person shots are already planned. If I get lucky
enough to get a third person shoot, I am going to be a porn
star; unless, of course, someone does not find me attractive
(I wonder if Ill lose any sleep over it).
This concludes my photo pontification. Now get shooting,
my soldier needs some marching orders.
- First Date and the Fun Part
- THe best approach.
- silicone-based lubes
- The size question; ladies, please help
- Did those people meet on Adult FriendFinder?
