Unfortunately, you have taken bits and pieces of articles
that appeal to you and your way of thinking of homosexuality.
I masturbated with other boys when I ws learning about what
sex was. My cousin (a boy) masturbated me to let me know how
good it would feel. I was elated and yes I will admit that
I wanted “ANYONE ELSE” do it for me because it
brought on a higher sense orgasm. It did not make me a homosexual
because I wanted this. Boys don’t hang around girls
and girls don’t hang around with boys until the early
teens. (I started at 5 with a female cousin by kissing her
vagina .. she was 12 and it tasted good). There was never
a year to go by that I did not have a sexual experience of some
sort with boy or girl. With boys, it was normally them masturbating
me, but occassionally I returned the favor so they would
do it for me again. As far as a woman doing it, she can learn
what really excites her and “TELL” her man how
to please her if they communicate with each other (that
is talking or even showing). It doesn’t mean to please
yourself and not tell your hubby how to do it or just lay there
letting him hop around like a fish out of water. I think you
need to forget that it was 15 or 20 years ago and let go of your
notions that it causes adverse effects on both men and women.
These notions only lead you to read an article and zoom in
on just the parts that appeal to your ideals. Let your mind
go first and explore the thoughts of others before making
hasty decisions. Pay heed to ALL of there words. There are
three types of sex which men and women can share and enjoy;
anal (yes it may be repulsive to some), oral (regardless
of Clintons stupidity in thinking it was not sexual), and
vaginal (which is preferred by the masses). Safe (or safer)
sex includes masturbation (we do each other, I do me, you
do you, etc.) and complete and total abstinence. Practicing
safe sex can include using male condoms (without using
petroleum based lubricants, vaseline, baby oil, etc.)
and female condoms (use plenty of water based lubes) and
mutual masturbation NO ORAL, ANAL, OR VAGINAL penetration
of and by a penis. Homosexuality is not a learned thing.
Chemical differences within the brain produced by the
body causes people to be attracted to each other. The sex
drive of one individual may be overwhelming and the thought
of just having sex with anyone is not disturbing to some
while repulsive to others. I am not a homosexual or bi-sexual
because of my experiences while growing up yet I had contact
with both sexes. I learned that I enjoy sex for what it is
and when I can’t get it, I masturbate. Now I can tell
my partner what I like her to do. If she doesn’t find
it repulsive (which she has never indicated), she obliges
and has FUN. I have also given many women their first female
orgasm because I pay attention to them during love making.
I LISTEN, EXPLORE, and WATCH HER REACTIONS to TOUCH. I want
my partner to have the most pleasant experience she can
have through this wonderful pleasure we have been given
to enjoy. After she has had her orgasm, then she can please
me the way she wants. Trust me, no matter what she does to
me. .. I will cum. Most times I feel she is more willing to
do things she never considered. That is always a pleasant
surprise. Because of communication between partners,
masturbation is NOT an evil thing that destroys people.
Only people can do it to themselves. Look at everything
being said when you “study” these facts. Not
just select what you want to believe. Who knows, you may
actually learn something new. I do every time.

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