For a long time I have been fascinated with peoples obsession
with rough sex over slow sex. It seems so many people get
“caught” in the moment that they forget what
that “moment” is all about.

What ever happened to being sensual? Grazing a womens breast
instead of rubbing them or yanking them. Grazing a womens
clit gently with your tongue instead of violently thrashing
it about in a immature manner.

What is slow sex? Do you even know?

Rough sex will please you but it pleases you forcefully.
Instead of allowing your body to feel everything in it’s
purest form it rushes through the simpler pleasure and
forces the finale!

Slow it down! Oral sex is meant as a tease an please! Sucking,
caressing, massaging, teasing. Basically being passionate!
Allowing two people to feel what it is you truly desire for
one another. Maybe you just desire the orgasm but from the
women I have and still am friends with I am gonna give you
a little info….

They all (the women I know) do what they do cause masturbation
lacks the connection you get with another person! They
do it cause they want to feel someone else pleasing them
and caring about them! None of them care about massive penis
size or tiny penis size, they just want to be able to feel
someone actually touch them. (If we felt that way when masturbating
then none of us would leave the house!)

Show a little passion andcompassionn! Don’t work
someones body like it is a object with nothing else attached!Rememberr
that sex was originally and still is looked at as a form of
art and _expression in many cultures. It is not a sport!

Learn to touch someone so that your actually hardly even
touching them so it’ll tease them and yet please them.
Learn to act as a lover with all people. Stop thinking that
passion is only meant for when you are in love. Passion is
meant for times in which you care! Sorry guys but it’s
pretty easy to get a erection. Any women knows that just
cause your penis is harddoesn’ttnecessarilyy mean
that your totally into her. (Hell a sudden chilling breeze
is enough in some instances to make a guy erect!)

Ladies it is your responsibility as well. guys need to be
taught how to please you! Be more upfront about what does
or does not feel good. Remember that what may feel good can
always feel better if you know your body well enough! A guys
body will explode if pumped enough times and everyone knows
that! Your female body is not the same way and to be honest
many guys don’t realize that.

But that also goes for men. Get over you macho man ego and
ask a women how she likes it. If you really want to see if you
treat her the right way have her masturbate for you. Sit
back and caress her body while she pleases herself but watch
how she does it very closely! Then ask yourself if you do
things that same way? And if you really want to be daring
then have her gently massage herself and follow behind
her strokes with your tongue nice and slow until you get
the pattern down and then take over.

you must remember that yanking, sucking, and pounding
are forceful and you will honestlyexperiencee more pleasure
by allowing your bodies to worktheirr way up to it’s
orgasm. XXX is for people who can’t controltheirr
hormones! Why do you think a lot of older people say slower
is better? Not because they can’t still go at it likeporn
starss but because they have YEARS ofexperiencee more
then you and thus have benefited from what knowledge those
years bring.

I know from the women who have given me ahand jobb and blow-job
that they have done it quickly and correctly and got me to
blow a load in under 30 minutes. Where as it being fun and
all it was not the best. The best I have yet had came from me
and then a women who finally gave me ahand jobb the way I wanted
it. For 2 hours she GENTLY pumped it up and down. I had her
grab it loose enough so i could hardly feel her hand at all.
I tell you what though….. I erupted twice as much as normal
that time, and the sensation was something I can’t
ever forget. Such adifferencee it isn’t even funny.

Do you have what it takes to truly go out of your way to please
your partner? A little bit of passion goes a very long ways!

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