Nov
4

Tantric Massage

Filed Under Incest 

Some of you members here know me from Hidden Mansion as
the Tantric masseur. Many men were in aw as they were watching
their ladies melt and explode to shivering orgasms on my
massage table. So I decided to write this article to everyone
out there who wants to know Tantric massage in detail. As
a contribution to Couples 2 couples and Steve & Dana,
here are my Tantric massage secrets: (Oh and hey. If it
gets to hard you can always call the professional to do it
for you ;-))

The Tantric massage will make you feel as if you are in a trance,
where physical boundaries dissolve, time disappears,
worries and problems no longer seem important, or are forgotten
altogether.
I will begin by having you recline on your back with pillows
under your head and a towel covered pillow supporting your
hips. Your legs will be slightly apart, your knees just
a little bent. Your abdomen, thighs, feet, toes, chest,
nipples and fingers are then gently massaged with warm
aromatic oil. Nothing will escape attention. Your energy
flow is stimulated and senses awakened as your body’s
sensitivity increases. According to Tantric ideals,
your entire body will be massaged, including those particularly
sensitive areas Perceptions of sensuality and lust are
located here, but these “intimate” areas are
an important source of joy in life.
You will feel relaxed, yet wide awake. You will be coached
to breathe properly, as you sink into yet deeper level of
relaxation. In this very loving ceremony you will be completely
nurtured and pampered with my loving hands, giving you
a feeling of comfort and sense of well-being.
Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely
translated as “sacred space” or “Sacred
Temple.” In Tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective
of love and respect. This is particularly important for
men to learn.
Before beginning the Yoni Massage it is important to create
a space for the woman (the receiver) in which to relax, from
which she can more easily enter a state of high arousal and
experience great pleasure from her Yoni. Her partner (the
giver) will experience the joy of giving pleasure and witnessing
a special moment. The Yoni Massage can also be used as a form
of “safe sex” and is an excellent activity to
build trust and intimacy. Some massage and sex therapists
use it to assist women to break through sexual blocks or
trauma.
The goal of the Yoni massage is not solely to achieve orgasm,
although orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect.
The goal can be as simple as to pleasure and massage the Yoni.
From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax,
and do not have to worry about achieving any particular
goal. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded,
more intense and more satisfying. It is also helpful for
the giver to not expect anything in return, but simply allow
the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax into herself.

The Massage
Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her
head so she can look down at her genitals and up at her partner
(giver). Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under her
hips. Her legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly
bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help)
and her genitals clearly exposed for the massage. This
position allows full access to the Yoni and other parts
of the body. Before contacting the body, begin with deep,
relaxed breathing. Both giver and receiver should remember
to breathe deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the
entire process. The giver will gently remind the receiver
to start breathing again if the receiver stops or begins
to take shallower breaths. Deep breathing, not hyperventilating,
is most important.
Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc.,
to encourage the receiver to relax and for the giver to prepare
for touching her Yoni. Pour a small quantity of a high-quality
oil or lubricant on the mound of the Yoni. Pour just enough
so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside
of the Yoni. Begin gently massaging the mound and outer
lips of the Yoni. Spend time here and do not rush. Relax and
enjoy giving the massage. Gently squeeze the outer lip
between the thumb and index finger, and slide up and down
the entire length of each lip. Do the same to the inner lips
of the Yoni/vagina. Take your time.
The receiver should tell the giver if the pressure, speed,
depth, etc. need to be increased or decreased. Limit your
conversation and focus on the pleasurable sensation,
too much talking will diminish the effect.
The Crown Jewel
The clitoris is an amazingly complex structure, similar
in function to the male’s glands, but surprisingly
- up to four times more sensitive. The glands portion of
the clitoris holds 6, 000 - 8, 000 sensory nerve endings,
more than any other structure in the human body. This hypersensitive
node has only one purpose: pleasure. Nothing exceeds its
ability to receive and transmit sensations of touch, pressure
or vibration. The glands are “crown jewel”
of the clitoral system!
Gently stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise
circles. Gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers.
Do this as a massage and not to get the receiver off. The receiver
will undoubtedly become very aroused but continue to encourage
her to relax and breathe.
Slowly and with great care, insert the middle finger of
your right hand into the Yoni (there is a reason for using
the right hand as opposed to the left. It has to do with polarity
in Tantra). Very gently explore and massage the inside
of the Yoni with this finger. Take your time, be gentle,
and feel up, down and sideways. Vary the depth, speed and
pressure. It is important to remember that this is a massage
in which you are nurturing and relaxing the Yoni. With your
palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni, move
the middle finger in a “come here” gesture or
crook back towards the palm. You will contact a spongy area
of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris.
This is the G-spot or in Tantra, “the sacred spot”.
She may feel the need to urinate, experience a little discomfort
or most hopefully pleasure. Vary the pressure, speed and
pattern of movement. You can move side to side, back and
forth, or in circles with your middle finger. You can also
insert the finger that’s between your middle finger
and pinky.
Most women should have no problem and will enjoy the increased
stimulation from two fingers. Take your time and be very
gentle. You may use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate
the clitoris as well. An option to try if the receiver wants
it is to insert the pinky of the right hand into her anus.
[In Tantra, it is said that when your pinky is gently massaging
her anus, the next finger and middle finger in her Yoni and
your thumb on her clitoris, “You are holding one of
the mysteries of the universe in your hand.”]
You can use your left hand to massage her breasts, abdomen,
or clitoris. If you massage the clitoris it’s usually
best to use the thumb in an up down motion, with the rest of
the hand resting on, and massaging the mound. The dual stimulation
of right and left hands will provide much pleasure for the
receiver. Continue massaging, using varying speed, pressure
and motion, all the while continuing to breathe deeply
and looking into each other’s eyes. She may have powerful
emotions come up and may cry. Just keep breathing and be
gentle. Some women have been sexually abused and need to
be healed. A giving, loving and patient partner can be of
immeasurable value to her. If she has an orgasm, keep her
breathing, and continue massaging if she wants. More orgasms
may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is
called “riding the wave.” In ending the massage, slowly, gently, and with respect,
remove your hands. Allow her to relax and enjoy the afterglow
of the Yoni massage. Cuddling or holding is very soothing
as well. As you learn to master the Yoni Massage your sex
life will be greatly enriched and you will learn a great
deal about feminine sexuality.

As an ex massage therapist who loves women so much, I studied
Tantric massage. This is the ultimate female pleaser!
If you ever wondered what is Tantric massage, here it is
in detail.
Oh and if you want a sampler and you are close by, let me know.
;-)

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