The scissors position: She lies on her back, he lies on his
side on her right (because most of you will be right-handed
and he will need one of his hands to stimulate her clitoris,
so use your better hand; if he is equally adept with both
hands, then it doesnt really matter unless his penis is
not straight like a candle and hits her g-spot better on
one side than on the other). She then pulls up her right knee
to her chest, he also pulls up his right knee horizontally
so that his right thigh comes to rest on her left thigh; his
left leg passes under her left leg so that he can straddle
it with his legs (the last bit is not a must, but this ensures
that his penis wont slip out of her vagina during sex which
can be annoying, especially when she is just having her
orgasm).
This is it as far as the basics go. If left at that, however,
it would just be a new position at best, but whats so special
at the scissors position is that it allows the male lover
to give his female lover additional pleasure in many other
ways while having sex, and this is what he should do if he
wants to truly satisfy her.

First of all he has access to her clitoris - if its not as
prominent or if the cock penetrating her is somewhat in
the way, he can place the thumb of his right hand (if he is
lying on her right) on the spot where her outer labia end
and pull up, that way her clitoris will be drawn up and he
will have easier access to it. He then can stimulate it by
making small circles on it with his index or middle finger;
only apply a little pressure and increase the speed the
closer she gets to orgasm (of course it would be good to stimulate
her clitoris before entering her, that way she will be wetter
and find it more enjoyable; the same counts of course for
foreplay).

Secondly, he can use his left hand to play with her nipples
by putting his left arm under her head. Her left breast will
be easier to reach, but he can also play with her right nipple
that way.

Thirdly, this position also allows both partners to kiss
while having sex; as an alternative he can also use his mouth
to play with her right nipple.

Regarding the climax of both partners: Ive found out through
personal experience that it is very beneficial for the
woman if the man penetrates her in a slow rhythm while circling
her clitoris, because if he does it in a fast manner, this
may interfere with the clitoral stimulation and orgasm
build-up. So do it slowly - which will also have the obvious
advantage that he wont come before her - but when she is only
seconds away from orgasm, he can and probably should piston
in and out of her as fast and hard as possible. This will of
course not only make her clitoral orgasm more intense,
it may or will also cause her to have a vaginal orgasm at the
same time, and on top of that, he will often come at the same
time or only second afterwards while she is still in the
throes of orgasm.

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